Good couple's therapy goes far beyond learning communication skills. Understanding the intersection of culture, socio-economic factors, attachment patterns, communication styles and early life history, to name a few, is fundamental to creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships that get stronger with time. My approach to couple's therapy is helping you and your partner gain deeper understanding to reshape how you relate to each-other and redefine how silent but powerful societal forces work in your favor. Through sensitive, trauma-informed care I will walk beside you as you start to create a more secure and meaningful connection.
Our early experiences profoundly shape how we connect with others, influencing everything from our emotional regulation to our approach to intimacy. These foundational experiences create patterns that affect:
How we regulate emotions and manage relationship stress
Our capacity for trust and vulnerability
The expectations we bring to relationships
Our comfort with intimacy and closeness
Our communication patterns
Our ability to resolve conflicts effectively
I provide specialized support in:
Feelings of disconnection
Promoting healing through secure attachment
Codependence
Dysregulation within relationships
Lack of trust
Unrealistic expectations
Discomfort with intimacy and closeness
Difficulty communicating
Stonewalling
Excess conflict
Passive aggresive behavior
Infidelity
Attachment trauma and attachment wounding
We’ll focus on strengthening your relationships through:
Developing enhanced communication skills and effective conflict resolution strategies
Building trust and deepening emotional intimacy while establishing healthy boundaries
Understanding and addressing family-of-origin impacts and power dynamics in relationships
The therapeutic process supports your individual growth through:
Developing deeper self-awareness and emotional regulation capabilities
Exploring personal identity and clarifying core values
Building self-worth and cultivating authentic self-expression
I recognize the vital role of culture in relationships and provide:
Support for navigating cultural relationship norms and family system influences
Understanding of immigration impact
Navigating intergenerational patterns
Guidance for integrating cultural identity and managing cross-cultural relationships
Expected Outcomes
Through our collaborative work, you can expect to:
Gain security, flexibility and awareness around your attachment style
Develop healthier relationship patterns
Build a stronger, more authentic connection
Improve communication skills
Experience personal growth and healing from past relationship trauma
Gain understanding of your own unique needs
Heal through building secure attachment
Develop healthy independence and emotional security
Gain regulation skills
Gain meaningful nervous system healing through somatic awareness
Build your capacity for trust and vulnerability
Creating realistic expectations for relationships
Increase comfort with intimacy and closeness
Develop healthier communication
Increase ability to resolve conflicts effectively
Your journey toward secure attachment and healthy relationships is unique, and I'm here to support you every step of the way.